Get Help for Picky Eating

Navigating the challenges of a "picky eater" can be quite the adventure for parents. These children often gravitate toward a narrow range of foods, commonly preferring "white" or crunchy textures, and they may turn their noses up at items based on various factors like texture, smell, flavor, or visual appeal. Many picky eaters also resist having their foods mix on the plate. On average, a picky eater may enjoy around 30 different foods, while a "selective eater" might choose fewer than 20.


While it’s natural for kids to reach for sweeter or saltier snacks, there's hope! With consistent exposure to a wide array of flavors and textures, along with encouragement and patience, you can help expand your child's palate. Introducing a variety of foods early on, including a colorful mix of fruits, vegetables, and spices, can pave the way for a more adventurous eater. Foster a relaxed and enjoyable mealtime atmosphere, respecting your child's preferences, to transform mealtime conflicts into delightful opportunities for culinary exploration and fun.

A toddler in a high chair examining a piece of green broccoli over a red plate in a kitchen.

When to Worry About Picky Eating

Determining whether your child’s eating habits stem from a phase of pickiness or indicate a potential issue can be challenging. Young children, particularly toddlers, often have fluctuating food preferences. While many tend to outgrow this pickiness, for some, it can extend into their teenage years or even adulthood. It's important to be alert for signs of concern, such as an aversion to entire food groups or a diet consisting of fewer than twenty different items, which might point to nutritional gaps or possible underlying issues like anxiety concerning new foods. Keep a close eye on their growth and development, and take into account factors such as allergies or health conditions that could influence their eating behaviors. A balanced diet is vital for both mental and physical well-being, so don’t hesitate to seek advice from healthcare professionals if you have any worries about your child's eating patterns.

How to Help Your Picky Eater

If you're facing the challenge of a selective eater in your household, consider them a "culinary adventurer" on a delightful journey through food. Start by establishing a regular schedule for meals and snacks to help regulate hunger and build excitement for what's to come. Keep in mind that trying new foods is similar to learning a new skill—whether it's reading or cycling—and it requires patience. Introduce fresh flavors alongside their beloved staples, and invite your child to take part in the kitchen experience. Let them help with selecting ingredients, preparing dishes, and cooking together, which will ignite their curiosity and involvement. Encourage open discussions about the tastes and textures they encounter, creating opportunities for engaging conversations about food. Most importantly, honor their food preferences while providing nutritious choices to cultivate a fun, low-pressure atmosphere for exploring new tastes and enjoying the adventure of diverse cuisines.

When to Seek Help

Are you struggling with a picky eater at home? Dr. Bonnie is ready to assist you in navigating the difficulties associated with children's selective eating. If you're worried about your child’s growth, facing food sensitivities or allergies, or dealing with severe pickiness and anxiety around meals, seeking expert guidance can pave the way to effective solutions. Partner with Dr. Bonnie and tackle these challenges head-on, fostering a more positive and nourishing experience with food for your child.

About Dr. Bonnie Feola and Nibbles & Sprouts

Having a child who is a picky eater can be overwhelming for parents, but with Dr. Bonnie Feola by your side, you don’t have to face it alone. As the founder of Nibbles & Sprouts, Dr. Bonnie combines three decades of pediatric expertise with culinary knowledge to transform your child’s relationship with food. Her customized approach addresses issues such as gut health, food-related anxieties, and weight management, providing effective strategies for conditions like ADHD. With Dr. Bonnie’s support, you’ll feel empowered to cultivate healthier eating habits in your children.

Dr. Bonnie Feola, Pediatrician & Chef, Nibbles & Sprouts